Stressing About Save The Dates?

Every week we have brides come in needing help with Save the Dates and they all have the same questions.  Do I have to know what colors I'm using, should they match the invitation, how many do I need to send out, and do I need to know the venue?

  We hate to see stressed out Brides so we decided to add some helpful blog posts.  Starting with some Save the Date tips.

First and foremost find a venue!  The venue availability will determine the date and accommodations for your wedding.  It's no secret that we LOVE the Wentworth by the Sea for their amazing packages we also love the York Harbor Inn for their bluff side ceremony and those are just two of the many amazing venues in the Seacoast. Take your time and find the perfect venue for your budget and vision.

The best part of Save the Dates is that they get to be fun.  You don't have to know what colors you are using or even if you are going to have a theme. This is a great way to show your personality.  Another Bride was having a black and white wedding complete with a black tie dress code but really loved burgundy.  So we suggested burgundy save the dates.

When you are thinking about who to send your Save the Dates to make sure to order one for every couple that you will be sending a formal wedding invitation to.  Remember, if you invite someone you can't uninvite them.  If you are unsure if you are going to send them a formal invitation it's best to hold off on sending them a Save the Date. Also, if you send someone a Save the Date and they tell you they will be unable to attend etiquette still requires you to send a formal wedding invitation.  Sometimes life changes and that weekend might free up for that guest, you never know.  It's always best to err on the side of caution

    

It's never too early to send out a Save the Date but remember that traditionally they are sent out eight to twelve months before the wedding.  However, if you are having a destination wedding  where a majority of your guests are going to have to travel it's best to give your guests at least a year to plan for it.

 

When you're ready to start creating your Save the Dates call us  at (603) 422- 9500 and set up an appointment to look at our AMAZING Vera Wang and William Arthur books.